Venmo Mom – What Is It?
Ever heard of a “Venmo Mom”? Interesting debate on social media – is this cool or not? She’s being very honest about what she’s doing:
Venmo Mom – Definition
So I googled the definition of “Venmo Mom” – here’s what I got (see if you agree).
If a parent doesn’t want to get involved with the PTO (Parent-Teacher Organization) or other school activities but prefers just to contribute financially, they might still be referred to as a “Venmo Mom” (or “Venmo Dad”). This parent opts out of the time and effort involved in organizing events, attending meetings, or volunteering, and instead, they support these activities by simply sending money via Venmo or another digital payment method.
This approach allows them to contribute to their child’s school community without the commitment of being actively involved. It’s a way to participate and help out while balancing other responsibilities or personal preferences. The ease of digital payments makes it possible for them to support school activities with minimal hassle.
This is the new norm
I remember when I was a Cub Scout leader we had plenty of parents who were willing to throw money at something (buying popcorn, etc) – but their time wasn’t one of the things they were willing to give up. I get it. This world is crazy for any parent these days, and it’s tough.
But what example are you setting for your kids? (I know, deep thought). I wonder about Venmo parents at school – do your kids see you paying for everything and figure that’s what they need to do. Maybe watching you help out with your time and energy will inspire them to get involved.
I wonder what teachers think of the “venmo mom” idea? Does it make it easier to not deal with some parents? (I’m not saying a word)
Again, just an opinion – curious to see what you think. Email: bigjim@wcsx.com
