Valentine’s Tips From The Heart Of Screamin Scott
Valentine’s Tips for the Week of Love is upon us all this week. Now these tips I am about to divulge are not scientific by nature, just friendly advice from the heart.
Should I Have A First Date On Valentine’s Day?
This would be like betting on any Detroit Sports team. It is a huge gamble that you might lose.
A first solo date on Valentine’s Day is not a good idea. If you ask someone on a date on VD, it’d be a turnoff since it’d come across more as a last-minute date for the love holiday than as “hey I wanna get to know you,” ya know?
Try asking her out for this weekend, and if things go great, ask if she has any plans for Valentine’s Day and say that you would love to take her out then for a nice cheesy romantic date. Don’t throw all your best moves on her on Valentine’s Day since you just met, but keep it light and fun more than anything.
For You Valentine Professionals That Have Been Together Awhile
Think outside the box, but don’t do anything too illegal. Try to think outside the box besides the box of chocolates if you’re pretty good with social media and computers. Make a homemade collage of photos sharing all the wonderful memories you both have shared, set to one of your favorite songs.
Dazzle The In The Kitchen By Making Their Favorite Food
Nothing says I Love You like a full stomach. Some studies prove that food is the way to a person’s heart. Ensure you know your way around the kitchen, or it could backfire. Sometimes, my favorite thing to cook is takeout.
Romantic Road Trips With Less Than A Tank Of Gas
A surprise romantic car ride to bring back memories of your first date? Or a secret trip to somewhere special and blindfold your date. Just don’t be the driver blindfolded. This is where you do your homework and plan ahead of time. If you try to do this at the last minute, your efforts will be called out.
See A Movie In A Movie Theater
In the modern age of Hulu, Disney Plus, and Netflix. How long has it been to go to an actual theater? Better yet, a “Drive-In.” remember to pick a film they like to make the experience more romantic.
One Last Thing To Tell You
St. Valentine’s, derived from the Latin valens, denotes worthy, strong, and powerful and imbues all emotions and aspects yet to come in a budding relationship. I hope things go well.
Common Valentine's Day Mistakes to Avoid
Buying a last minute gift
Having no plans, even with good intentions, can make you seem inconsiderate and unmotivated. While it’s tempting to resort to last-minute convenience-store flowers or a generic box of chocolates, your partner likely knows you’re more creative. Avoid scrambling to find the perfect last-minute Valentine’s Day gifts. Instead, have a plan in place, making your partner feel valued with the thought you put into it ahead of time.
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Not making reservations
Valentine’s Day is a peak time for restaurants, spas, and getaways, so avoid waiting until the eleventh hour to snag your spot. Many places fill up weeks or even months before the big day. According to Taste of Home, it’s wise to plan and secure a reservation five to six weeks in advance. Mark it on your calendar to avoid any slip-ups. If you realize you forgot, try calling around to see if any restaurants have last-minute openings, or opt for a cozy romantic dinner at home.
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Not discussing a budget
Surprises are great, but when you gift your partner chocolate and roses and they surprise you with a trip to Hawaii or a new car, it can be a bit awkward. Although it’s uncommon to have such a huge difference in gift budgets, having a quick chat before Valentine’s Day can be beneficial. Set some guidelines. Maybe agree on a small budget, like under $20, or consider pooling funds for a more extravagant joint experience.
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Ignoring preferences
People often make the mistake of organizing Valentine’s Day based on their preferences rather than considering what their partner likes. Avoid overlooking your partner’s wishes or desires for the day. If your significant other prefers a cozy night at home over a fancy dinner, make sure your plans align with their preferences.
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Skipping it all together
Even if you’re not a big fan of Valentine’s Day, your partner might be a total romantic, so don’t act like it’s just any regular day. You don’t have to pull off a huge, fancy gesture every time, but completely ignoring it can be hurtful. Making a little effort shows you care. Complaining about the day doesn’t help either. Some people see Valentine’s Day as a bit commercial, but pointing that out or making excuses to ignore it might disappoint your partner. Griping about putting effort into the day can quickly spoil anything special you decide to do for them.
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