Should We Have A Second Kid Now Or Wait?!
This Grounds for Divorce was all about having a second kid and if it’s good to do it now or wait until our son is a little older? Obviously I took this question to air and the feedback was amazing.
So, as most of you know my amazing wife Heidi and I have a 14 month old son named Finnian. Lately, my wife and I have been talking about adding a little brother or sister to the family. My question was simple in theory. Is it better to have another now, or wait a few years.
Here is the question as asked on air:
IS IT TO SOON TO TRY FOR ANOTHER KID? FINN IS 14 MONTHS AND MY WIFE AND I HAVE BEEN TALKING ABOUT IT..WHAT ARE THE BIG THINGS TO THINK ABOUT WHEN HAVING ANOTHER KID?
Before we get to the conversation and listener comments I want to make it clear. This is not cryptic or anything, my wife is not pregnant and you know you will be some of the first to know when she is!
Here is how the conversation went on air:
Now for some of the listener comments from the text line and Facebook page:
DONNA: I say go for it. You may not get pregnant right away. I wanted mine about 2 years apart, my first 2 ended up 4 years apart.
313: Ryan…if you are thinking about it…go for it.
KELLY: I had my daughter three days before I was 20. 14 months later I had a son two years almost to the day I had another boy. So I wasn’t 25 yet and had three children. I wouldn’t have done it any other way. Do it Ryan!!!
517: Dont think its ever the right time .. just practice if it happens it happens…
Those are just a few of the comments, but honestly there were so many comments saying go for it and get it done!
FINAL THOUGHTS:
I love that I can turn to you all and ask important questions like this, as always you have helped my wife and I out. I think we will begin trying and see what happens. It’s never a sure thing, but it is worth trying. I cannot see my life without my son and would love to add to our growing family!
As always, thank you for the continued support and helpfulness you show me everyday!
Want to catch up on past Grounds for Divorce? Click HERE!!